What could I be if not for you...

Is it really important to have someone who can
appreciate our creativity and relish our creation.

Kids who can savour the delicacies we dish out.
And, in the process, enhance our own self worth
and help bring to fore all of our latent talents.

Siblings who are wowed by our choice of words,
shots, strokes, pictures, poems, stories, movies,
novels, music. Just about anything.

How do those who accept our gifts and enjoy our
chocolates and cakes and everything else matter?

Friends whom we depend on for gossip, advice, fun.
And, even for a lap or a shoulder which sees us
through tough times.
Friends with whom we share a bond that sometimes
don’t just exist in marriages and families.
 

Thank them for making us what we are today.

They are not just another souls on the Earth.
They are a part of our souls.
They are the ones who complete us.
And, make us feel whole, good, wanted.
Worthy of existence.

That’s how much these other poles of our souls matter.

How can they think that they are just about
a normal someone. 
A mere existence in the cosmos.

Let them ask us. 
A someone to whom they mean the world.
Someone they complete. Someone whose life,
even if only in some ways depends on them.

And, they’ll know their worth.

What could we be if not for them...

Dedicated to all those souls who make me a whole!!!
Thanks for making my life worthwhile!

Laws of Love

Law of Imbalance

In a relationship one will always love more than the other.

Law of Gravity

Whosoever loves more is always weighed down and is trampled upon.

Law of Conservation

Love can never be destroyed. It only changes its form. When your BF ditches you you start loving your near and dear ones more because of the support that they give you.

Law of Availability

If you have the capacity to love you'll shower love on anyone you want. Whether they want it or not is another topic of debate.

Law of Non-Reciprocation

If you really, really, really love someone so badly that it hurts it will remain unreciprocated.

Law of Irritation

There will always be someone who'll love you so badly that it'll irritate.

Law of Realization

When you've lost someone who loved you to someone else you'll realise that you loved that someone so very badly.

Law of Strength

When someone you love loves you back you become beautiful, confident and dignified to yourself.

Law of Growth

No experience in the world helps us grow as much as falling, being and losing out in love does.

Law of Pleasant Pain

Love hurts like nothing else does yet this one pain is worth more than all the pleasures put together.

Law of Hurt

Only those who are in a one-sided relationship can love till it hurts coz in a complete relationship no one lets the other come to the point where it hurts.

More to come later...;)

The Colour of You

Dear Mala,
In one of your posts you'd wondered as to what your colour is.
well, this is what i think of you.


You are the yellow of Gauri
And the red of Durga

You are the white of Saraswati
And the black of Kaali

You are the blue of Shiva
And the green of Ganga

You are the poise of palaas
And the fire of amaltaas

You are the spunk of 16
And the serenity of 60

You are the glitter of gold
And the sheen of silver

You are the darkness of coal
And the brilliance of diamond

You are the love of mother
And the wrath of father

You are the passion of love
And the repulsion of hatred

You are the heat of sun
And the cool of moon

You are all that HE is
You are nothing that HE is not.

Touch my soul

one is planned, the other spontaneous;
one is intentional, the other emotional;
one is just another act, the other a prayer;
one is assembly of two bodies, the other a confluence of souls;
one is the outcome of love, the other a manifestation of love;
one makes futile differences, the other makes fruitful;
when it is the first for us, let it be the second.
xxxxxxxxxx

My take on making love.
dolly jha

Jai,Veeru etc

तेरी जीत मेरी जीत,
तेरी हार मेरी हार,
सुन ऐ मेरे यार
जान पे भी खेलेंगे,
तेरे लिए ले लेंगे,
सबसे दुश्मनी

Thus sang along the carefree duo as they cherished their lives in each other's company.
Such was their love for each other that Jai even fools his friend to bargain for his death with his own life.That's how thick their friendship was.
And, that's probabaly why this song went on to become friendship anthem nationwide.

vvvvvvv
And the entire auditorium broke into instant applause. Innumerale pairs of palms clashed against each other in a rhythmic chorus.
claps.Claps.Claps.All sort of them.
Happy.Surprised.Thunderous.Speechless. Awed.Claps of all sort.
But, there was one which stood apart.
The clap with tears.
The clap of a friend.
When Ishaan received the first prize for his painting.
The clap which probabaly hid amongst the crowd but which was distinct nonetheless.

vvvvvvvv
As Alayka found his way to the New York zoo. A baby away fom his father and mother. The four things that kept his life from falling apart were his four friends on whom depended his life as he grew up to be the king of New York zoo.


Friendship endures all and emerges triumphant. It never ends. At least not in the heart.It can't be butchered. It sustains all odds and goes on to nurture our lives forever.

Friendship remains as sturdy as the shade of a family.
It remains when love forsakes.
It rescues when all else fails.

If love is God's kiss oh-so-gently planted on your forehead then friendship is his loving hand on our head.
Sure and pure.
It's his assuring pat on our back.
His guiding hand in ours.
The light which leads us on the path of bliss through love and support.
Unconditional.Unending.

यारों दोस्ती बड़ी ही अजीब है, ये न हो तो बोलो क्या ये ज़िन्दगी है

Losing a friend is as painful as losing anyone close to your heart- family or love.
Breaking up with a friend is no less agonizing than breaking up from a lover.

But if it actually is friendship then it's gonna come back, no matter what.

A la Dil Chahta Hai

Yes,if the patch is not yet done to fir picture abhi baaki hai doston!